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The Legendary Coaching Group has helped me to understand how my childhood affects my present and how to handle it in a better way. It has helped me to deal with the negative emotions that came from my past and see my childhood with new eyes. Also, the bonus courses are great and explain the different phases of success. A great service is the weekly live classes where you can ask David Tian questions.
David I just wanted to say thank you for creating Invincible and your YouTube channel.
After feeling shame as to who I was and not feeling good enough as a man I realized through your teachings and doing therapy, was the answer. Unlearning the shame I had told myself who I am. By starting to question some of my shame based beliefs I wasn’t “becoming someone else” I was becoming “myself” and really I am starting to realize I am an amazing person thanks to the countless videos you put on man up and the amazing effort you have put into Invincible. The visualization exercises have given me an energy inside of myself which I feel might be my future self, and I’m starting to feel it take over.
Thanks for helping me and thanks for doing what you do, I’ll always be grateful.
Hey David! I want to thank you for being such a good teacher and for the transformation my life has had! I am now able to act with confidence and stand my ground when it matters. I am able to be myself without fear, handle conflict and contribute to the lives of others. I look in retrospective and realize all the good things and the amazing transformations that has taken place since I first did Invincible. I could see that thanks to my effort the Invincible exercises are starting to translate into reality and I have no words to describe how deeply amazing that feeling is! And not only that; I know that this is just the beginning; more amazing things are yet to come!!! And this transformation started thanks to you, David! Infinite thanks bro!
I just finished Module 8 from the Invincible online course, and I must say, this program was worth every penny. It cleared up a lot of misconceptions I had about life and women, and I really look forward to implementing what I have learned once this pandemic is over.
Hey David Tian, I would like to extend my appreciation for the existence of your course Invincible. Overall, the summary of it is that through it, I found my heart. Even if there’s societal pressure, the choice to be aligned with my happiness and maintaining relations with people around me. I just wanted to thank you, Invincible was the lifeline I needed to not give up living.
Rock Solid Relationships and Masculine Mastery is probably the most fundamental course I’ve ever taken on anything anywhere. All of David’s courses really go deep but this one especially, goes deep. I learned about what was really blocking my relationships, heck, literally my whole life. This course isn’t just about relationships, it’s about how you fundamentally interact with reality.
The cool thing about the way David teaches is you can go over the content over and over and get new things out of it all the time. Every single time I review it and apply it, my life gets just that much better, because the course is based on a bunch of psychological principles that are deeply true. Rather than a bunch of tactics and techniques, although it includes some of those as well, which are enhanced by the overall context of the course. So clearly I am totally on board with David on this course, I do recommend it if you are interested in trying it out. You won’t regret it.
Hey David, I hope you are having a great day so far, for I know that I am because of you. I know you most likely get these all the time, but I need you to know my appreciation for your work is impeccable. I know that you must have suffered a lot throughout the years for I have too. It does show in your work sometimes, especially when people ask you questions, I pay a lot of attention and I know you do as well. It really is quite beautiful. I can tell that you really care about what you do and the people you help and it’s truly inspiring, thank you David. Your work has helped so many people, and it actually amazes me how you were able to come up with a way to attract guys into your world/business with the promise of getting women. I too have fallen for that hook, line and sinker (if people still say that lol) it’s funny how stupid I realized I was. You must know by now, that most guys come to you with the wrong ideas in their heads about various things. The dark triad is a great way to dispose of those ideas, and I’m really surprised when you called out the fakers including me. It was so deep, in fact, I convinced myself that I wasn’t a codependent narcissist. You calling out the guys (PUA and red pill types) put me into a position where I would have been in denial by not confronting that part of me. Thank you again David, you don’t know how much you helped me and so many others.
I will continue to review your ideas and test them in action for I too have a goal of helping men just like you do. The fact that you were able to grow your business to the point where you willingly give out free courses to guys in need actually brings tears to my eyes man. You taught me that true fulfillment comes from helping out the little guys and just spreading love anyway you can. I know now a little more about what it means to be a man thanks to you. In my daily life now, I think what would so and so do usually referring to you or Theodore Roosevelt and many others who I won’t name.
You truly are a MAN and I will continue to MAN UP with all of you guys.
In honor of you David Tian, PhD. lol I vow to become a great man so that I can inspire other men to do the same as you and many before you have.
David Tian, I am certainly grateful for having come across you and your programs. Before your programs, I suffered depression and then my marriage ended. At the beginning of this year, I couldn’t see the light at the end of the tunnel and formulated my ‘exit strategy’. I couldn’t see a future at all, couldn’t tell you what I’d be doing 12 months from now. But because of your programs, I have a new lease on life. I purchased a couple of your programs recently and, mate, it’s given me DRIVE (no pun intended) to get my shit together and get my arse into gear. So thank you, David Tian, I owe you a beer or 20. Cheers!
Just want to put this out there: David is a legend. I took his course nearly 5 years ago and although I haven’t really needed anything else since then, what he taught, will like full on Mr. Miyagi you. The seeds that he plants in your head take you down a journey that fully accommodates you for where you are in life so that you can evolve as a human being.
I often think back about the pivotal moments that changed my life growing up. A mentor here, an epiphany there, but two big lessons that David taught me through his teachings have really made me into a much more capable, open minded, and compassionate human being. David knows what he’s doing, and believe you’ll come out the other side doing everything you’ve ever wanted.
I found David’s Total Transformation Collection very rewarding, as it made me realize aspects about myself that I know I have to work on. After years of struggling with psychological problems and not being able to find the answers I have been looking for, finally, I have found content that is giving me the tools I need to propel me forward and help me to live a more fulfilling life.
Best regards, Tony
Hi David, I have bought your Invincible course and am a member of your Legendary Group and constantly and continuously watch, listen, and read any free content that you post out there. Great stuff man! I love it! I appreciate the work that you are doing for humanity, and particularly us men of the 21st century…
I’ve gone through a lot of other dating coaches and their programs… I am the type of guy that likes to stand from the “root” of everything and learn from there, instead of standing from the “branch”. Just when I thought I found the “root”, there was actually another layer deeper that I needed to go to. For example, instead of learning from countless dating programs that have similarities and differences, I try my best to find the one dating program that will give me the ability to put all other dating programs on their respective “branches”. Doing so, it will automatically and naturally help me learn and master all the other dating programs without having to spend time going through them. That is the case with you, David! I mean you really did the work like no one else that I have seen! YOU DID THE MOTHERFUCKIN WORK! I hear people talk in their sales pages about how “deep” their inner game courses are, but it still was not deep enough in the psychological realm as I wanted it to be. But god dammit, you fuckin took us guys to the source (or “root”) of it all, which is our childhood.
Whether the dating coaches out there realizes it or not (at least the ones that I consider great realizes it) is that when it comes to dating and attraction, Eastern Philosophy applies best..
I am so surprised and grateful to have found a dating coach who is an academic with a PhD that teaches this. Never ever would I have thought to come across someone like you. Call it the law of attraction or whatever, but who you are as an individual, all of your past experiences that led you to where you are right now, and the depth of knowledge and experience that went into your programs from tried and true experiences really relates with me. I mean I seriously feel that you are the ideal teacher who has met all of the criteria that I want in a coach! It’s funny because I didn’t start out looking for a teacher like this until I started really struggling and decided to MASTER this area of my life. I did not even realize that I was going down the PUA path until I realized that I was unhappy and not getting the results that I wanted… Of all the dating coaches and life coaches out there, none of them are like you… It was not until I read a lot of great reviews of you and actually got to see a few of your free videos that talked about the Dao state, that I finally decided to check out your programs and purchased Invincible… And the extensive experience of research that you went through in the fields of philosophy, psychology, neuroscience, biology, physiology, NLP, CBT, etc. … Again, you went to the source, thank you! I’ve noticed that a lot of your other programs help deal with neediness as well. That made me even more excited!
David Tian is a Guru Like NO OTHER! He understands, explains, and motivates me to go out and meet new Women. Based on changing my core beliefs and understanding, or differences in Male and Female Psychology.
Every lesson is carefully calibrated to pack 1000X value into the time spent learning the material. The focus is on making life changes that give me knowledge to go out and do the work to become better with woman and more successful in life. Thank you David Tian, for when the student is ready, the teacher appears. Forever Grateful!
Legendary is an amazing course for guys that are just beginning their therapeutic path. Legendary has gotten me to go see a therapist and work through my past traumas and reasons why I have toxic shame. The course includes a few other bonus courses that lead you through different types of energies that will help guide you through life. David is also a huge believer in meditation which you will experience throughout the course, stick with it, because meditation has changed the way I approach life. This course has changed the direction of my life and I am extremely grateful. Thanks, David!
Invincible is a great course for guys that want to improve their dating lives. Invincible helped me to understand more of my psychology and how to better understand the attraction of women. I love how David also has a bunch of book recommendations that go along with the course for you to understand the concept better. Each module is broken down very well and they build on top of one another. I was skeptical at first, but once I started to commit myself and do the guided meditations, I saw great results. Stick with the course and it will guide you to literally becoming invincible.
I wanted to share a couple of “breakthroughs” I’ve experienced from starting David Tian’s Legendary Group. So, my first “breakthrough” is that I have been talking to more people. It sounds sort of insignificant when I say it like that, but it’s huge for me. In these past few weeks, I’ve reconnected with two of my ex-girlfriends, with whom I had failed relationships with. Thanks to David’s stuff, I’ve been able to let go of the past and be with them as friends… I’ve also reconnected with an old childhood friend that is also a wonderful person, but I let my narcissism and self-esteem issues ruin our friendship. It was incredible to hang out with him again, “bullshit free”… I randomly check in on people I care about. I feel much more able to connect with people since I’ve been getting better at loving myself. I’m more and more comfortable with expressing my truth, which brings me to my second breakthrough.
Breakthrough number two is that I believe that I’m starting to understand the “true self” concept… After implementing David’s suggestions, I’m beginning to I feel more like my true self more consistently throughout the week. I feel good, I feel happy, content, able to express my truth without much fear of how others will judge me. I feel free. I feel like everything is ok, and even if objectively nothing is ok, that’s ok too. That sentence sounded stupid as fuck, but it really does describe the feeling. I’ve spent so much of my life so far feeling absolutely awful, seemingly for no good reason at all, although the reasons are becoming clearer and clearer these days… I’m looking forward to hopefully having several decades of living on this earth while having increasingly more and longer “glimpses” of those good, true self, pocket-full-of-sunshine moments, instead of feeling absolutely fucking awful and overflowing with darkness all the time. I use to scare myself with how dark I could become; luckily I don’t feel that way as much anymore.
So, thank you David for your guidance. My life is becoming much more enjoyable, and your work continues to play a very big part in that. Cheers man, thank you. You’re fucking awesome
Hey, I just finished all of FreedomU!!! Huge thank you to David Tian for this course and all the support you gave. Since beginning FreedomU and at around the same time undergoing IFS therapy, I have grown so much more present and reassured about myself. Other people have taken notice of this and I’m seeing many positive changes in my dating, social and work life. I’m much more comfortable around attractive women, can enjoy myself better in social circles, and have taken on bigger leadership roles in work. I’d recommend the course to anyone who wants to grow from the inside out.
The first time I went through David’s INVINCIBLE program caused extreme changes in myself. The way I carried myself throughout my day was entirely different!
I’m 22 years old from Canada. What I’ve learned in my first month in the Legendary Coaching Group, and from David’s content in general, is my understanding that love is not transactional. I also realized that everything that I had accomplished in my life thus far was driven by a need for significance; I was using self-hate as fuel and working as hard as I could to achieve, because deep down I did not feel “good enough to get love”. I thought that I could fix that “problem” by accomplishing more, by creating more value within myself so that other people would give me more love.
The book analysis he did of “Flowers for Algernon” (which I read for English class in high school but did not realize the lessons that David pointed out) as well as “Learning to Love Yourself” were very helpful to me in coming to these realizations.
My limiting belief that I used in the Drive bonus course (I’m having a good laugh to myself remembering the silly voice I used during the exercise) was “People give love to you because you provide value to them, and I don’t currently have enough value to get love”.
One other realization that I’ve come to is that I’ve been avoiding being in my warrior/knight energy lately, because intense self-hatred was always such a big part of how I was able to access that energy in the past. I was tired of the self hate and I didn’t know how to access my productivity without it, so I avoided productivity. Realizing this, doing the Drive bonus course, and reading “Learning to Love Yourself” has allowed me to step back into my warrior energy, while also loving myself. I didn’t think that this was possible, but I think I’m getting the hang of it. For the past three days in a row, I’ve gone for a morning jog (I haven’t been exercising at all for the past few months or so) followed by a cold shower or ice bath. Instead of my internal dialogue being something like “come on you pathetic fuck, keep running, you fat piece of shit, you better keep pushing you lazy motherfucker! People won’t value you if you keep being a lazy fat-ass!” my internal dialogue was more like “I love you. Keep pushing! You’re doing great. I love you for how much you’re pushing yourself right now, I think you can push just a little bit more!”. I felt a lightness, a sense of space, a warm sort of fuzzy feeling throughout my body from this self love I was giving myself. From that place, it felt much easier to push myself more.
Thank you David for the work that you do. Life is becoming better already after this first month of Legendary, and after about two months of watching your YouTube content and free Masterclasses. I am so grateful!
Hi David, I have been watching and learning a lot about life from your sessions. I’ve taken time to implement what it takes to make a difference in my life… It’s been a blessing for me and my family to have come across you and your team. Your down to earth way of explaining what men go through and understanding the finer points of change that needs to be made in my life has been huge. My potential to lift myself out of the darkness and I have a new courage and determination to live life to the fullest again. I’m so grateful, so so grateful to have you in my life. Keep up the good work and I can honestly say from the bottom of my heart this single Dad is a changed man. Thanks heaps. God bless.
Rock Solid Relationships and the Legendary Coaching Group have been amazing so far, intellectually, emotionally and practically.
The first time I went through the Invincible program, it caused an extreme change in myself. The way I carried myself throughout my day was entirely different!
I never expected to experience my increased confidence as a result of Invincible bleeding into other aspects of my life.
Because of my stutter (or that’s what I blamed it on), I used to be very shy and timid to any kind of confrontation, and I don’t just mean the negative kind. Yeah, I was shy around girls, had approach anxiety, and was shy around new people, but I was also shy about my career goals, life advancement, breaking up with toxic people, and even confrontation in the business sense. I used to hide (if I could) behind a text message, or just ignore people when it came to breaking up, or other uncomfortable situations/conversations…
I’m on module 7 of Invincible (I’m taking the 12 week path, lol) and I’ve reflected over the last 8 weeks, and realized that I’ve changed, like really, deeply, at my core, changed. I’m stronger, much more assertive (in a polite, professional way), and more importantly to me, I no longer shy away from uncomfortable situations or conversations. For example, this morning I fired my contractor because he would never show up or contact me. The old me would have just left it alone, and maybe ignored him, or just dealt with it.
It’s ironic for me, I originally purchased this program, and even started following David Tian because my dating life sucked, and I was desperate for change; I just threw a hail-mary, and hoped his program would work. Ironically, while it did help my dating life, it helped MORE with just my LIFE in general, which, in turn, bled over to my dating life; it indirectly improved my dating life (as much as can be done with Covid) due to improving my LIFE in general. I’m not scared anymore. I didn’t block the contractor’s number because I didn’t want further argument (like I would normally do), and I’ve been able to face things, all the way through, without hiding from them.
I’m much more calm than I’ve ever been. I suffer from anxiety, and slight depression, and even my Doctor has said to me that she’s seen such a huge change in my personality, and demeanor over the last few months. I still have a MOUNTAIN of work left to do, but I’m light-years from where I was when I started this journey. I’ve improved in things that I never even expected to improve in, which makes me more excited and motivated to continue my journey to see where I end up.
G’day David, I want to tell you how much Rock Solid Relationships has changed my life, already. Your Rock Solid Relationship course has been to the core, awesome. In particular, I want to share this – one of the initial therapeutic meditations brought up some emotion, some real “Jase it’s time to wake the fuck up” moments. I cried, I cried deeply… sobbing and owning it all. Afterwards, I had yelled and screamed YES, it was like a new beginning… but wait there is more…. the very next module, the guided meditation brought up some more emotion and I saw it as a sign from the god within my soul and the universe (and David Tian:)) to wake up. Step up and be the man I was meant to be. It was truly life changing. I work at Sea and this Covoid-19 thing has meant us Seafarers are working longer swings and away from our families… your RSR course has supported me and healed many wounds of insecurities so far. I can say that our marriage has never felt more alive, both on the phone and when I’m home for my 6 weeks at a time. The fun is back, I’m laughing more, I am the fucking prize and no longer do I feel the “need” to pursue her. And in turn… when I came back to the ship, my wife sent me a message saying how much she will miss me and how much of an amazing man, husband, and father I am becoming… anyway… my journey continues, I’ve still not finished the course, I’ve a few more modules. Once again, honor to you for the tireless work you do to support the boys to becoming men in this world. We sure need it. Aho! and much love brother.
Iv’e just started Invincible after a tough rejection from a girl I had a crush on. The first module alone took me a long way down the path of self improvement. There is something very profound learning about neediness, emotional control, purpose, meditation and the flow state. These things just put me at ease knowing the people behind this program know their stuff. And I haven’t even got to the outer work modules yet! This is probably the best investment I made this year. Looking forward to the next material.
I am currently enrolled in the Total Transformation Collection which compromises of four courses – Drive, Heart, Purpose and True Self. This course is helping me to change the way I interact with females and friends and how I fit in with my present social setting.
Invincible is a life changing course! I’ve always struggled with women and assumed I wasn’t fit enough, handsome enough, or suave enough. David Tian’s course Invincible has helped me to realize the bigger issue was my poorly developed persona and past neuroses, both of which made it difficult to form strong and meaningful relationships. Invincible walks you through the process of addressing and healing past traumas, developing better and stronger personas, as well as gives advice on approaching and talking to women. Would highly recommend to anyone who needs a little help with the ladies and is wise enough to avoid the pick-up artist BS and invest in themselves.
Lifestyle Mastery has made me more conscious of my old programming and shines a light towards new exciting possibilities. Got inspired to start therapy, yoga and meditation and haven’t looked back since. Completing the introspective work (while challenging at times) was an ultimately liberating process that has allowed me to reassess my priorities and reconnect with my true self. I now have a better understanding of my blockages / limiting beliefs and generally feel a greater sense of inner peace and clarity. This course is such a huge paradigm shift and I’m excited to visit it again down the road. Thank you David!
Thank you so f*cking much for your work. I cannot express how much I value what you do. I’m in tears typing out this email, just because I feel so fortunate to be able to learn the things that you teach. I feel an enormous weight lifted off me, because I believe your work will eventually allow me to overcome the truly toxic feelings I have developed towards being intimate with women.
The Legendary Coaching Group is David Tian’s awesome guide to anybody that is seeking personal growth in areas like motivation, purpose, masculinity, dating, and relationships. The core program is based around 5 progressive phases of mastering life. David does a great job at describing each stage and provides you with the necessary action steps and psychotherapeutic process to help you achieve the milestones of each stage. The program also includes guided meditations, bonus courses, and David’s streaming podcast style sessions for Q&A and provides awesome book reviews to dive even deeper into the coursework. The entire program is great and effective particularly if you do the work. I would recommend it to anybody that is just starting their adult lives in their 20s, all the way to 40+ year old divorcees who are looking to get back to dating and getting into their next relationship.
Appreciate for putting this all together, glad I came across David and the course, Invincible. I was always wondering why women that I didn’t really pay attention to fell for me when I wasn’t trying to do anything at all but when I liked a woman and tried to do almost everything I could come up with, it NEVER worked. I was so puzzled. This program answered all my prayers. It is like a light switch in a dark unknown room – you do have a chance of finding a door in dark but it becomes effortless when the light is on. The program is well structured with thoughtfully intertwined theory and practice guiding you through a transformation process. You do have to do your part, but it doesn’t feel like work or burden – more like a 21-century-tailored journey to become a man you always wanted to be. It is where you truly start seeing that your life stops turning around women. It is now women (and everything else) who start turning around a life you design.
I came from a PUA type background but I found they didn’t know how to approach emotions or the deeper-level elements of psychology that you need to understand for things to be easy and straightforward. A lot of these old concepts like “bitch shields” are simply surface level knowledge until you understand the deeper-level psychology, most importantly your own psychology. But David doesn’t do it in an intellectual way like you might expect, he does it instead at an experiential level. This course is what I had in mind many years ago when I first ran into PUA and dating, but I didn’t find it until now several years later. I only found surface-level courses, or the ones that did try to address deeper psychology but didn’t know what they were talking about, which makes sense considering the questionable emotional health of the progenitors of those courses. Don’t bother with other courses until you have done this one first. The magic of this course is it gives the context you need to put other courses in their place, unless of course you decide to choose another Aura course, in which case you’ll get the same benefit. This is it, chief.
David Tian, your experiences in life with emotional pain and your ability in negotiating your obstacles to learn and grow through pain and pleasure and still be able to translate that into your current world today to help others has been a blessing to me. You have no idea how much self discovery I have been able to harness on a daily basis from my old toxic relationship into my new life of love and self discovery all because of your courses, which have been priceless… You are correct brother, love is the most powerful invisible force in this universe and just want to thank the universe for having me find your wisdom and being of knowledge to share with the world. My experience of love has been amazing and filled with adventure, growth, everlasting learning and true happiness… although I know this is just the tip of the ice burg I look forward to learning s’more until the end of time! Thank you!!
I have just completed the course Invincible the first time. Incredible training I can tell you. What I did enjoy the most was the guided meditations. So uplifting, so visionary, and I can tell you that I was crying meanwhile a lot.
Decided that I am a winner now, no matter what. Started practicing mostly conversations, going in with the attitude “everyone likes me” to ask for contacts and to meet new people (not only woman!), smiling a lot more, watching my inner thoughts and feelings, driving conversations, not really talking on the surface level but navigate it towards more like making emotional connections.
Fixed my posture, practicing deep tonality, taking care of my body, physiology and eating clean, went back to workout. Man, the attention, the compliments (haha really? and what do you like in that the most? Thank you!) I get is just so much, like never before! Even girls are approaching me now, which was not really the case back in the years (I was always the one).
Will keep continuing this journey! I really appreciate your trainings David, so a huge thank you to you!
When I started doing and still do the embodied cognition meditative exercises, therapeutic processes, and meditations from your online courses. I started feeling subtle but steady shifts in my mind towards calmness and clarity of mind. Also the ability to control my body and its inner state. All of which I consider very helpful and important in my relationship and my life!
I understand many people don’t understand why a female would be so invested in a relationships program designed for men as I have. I have been thirsty and committed to learning and growing since I first learned about David Tian’s materials about two years ago.
Not only did the materials help me get through a difficult time, they helped fulfill my desire to be a strong role model for my son and help him as he matures. Now, the fruits of my learning have spread among the people I love dearly… even to my father and beyond…
Please know, you are not just investing in yourself when you work through these materials, but you are unknowingly positively infecting everyone you come in contact with.
Thank you David Tian! My response to my recent challenges is a true testament to the strength and validity of my personal growth and improvement from taking David’s Freedom U Online program and his other courses. Not only do I have understanding of myself, my psychology, and relationships, I am now a person who takes actions toward desired outcomes and welcomes difficult times. David has taught me a new perspective, the amazing value of struggle. I reflect and witness a new strength that comes from within. I am no longer a victim of my circumstances wishing things would change. Sometimes I am in awe of what I can do compared to previously. I find myself celebrating and feeling excited. Not to say that I am perfect, sometimes I catch my unconscious brain trying to cope with my stress in previous non-productive ways. Sometimes I give in and cope non-productively. Afterwards I forgive myself, tell myself I will do better next time, and remind myself we are what we do, as motivation. Having more positive actions define us more than one negative slip up. Having a meditation and exercise schedule has also definitely built strength and calm within. David, you are greatly appreciated.