You may have found dating tips that suggest manipulation and dishonesty will improve your dating life. Wear flashy clothes, put on an act, become “alpha.”   But manipulation turns off emotionally healthy women. And when your dishonesty fails to bring you love,...

If you’re casually dating different women, waiting to find “the one” for a long term relationship, your approach may be working against you.   Success in a long term relationship has different requirements than casual dating. To find a relationship partner, you...

    Are you hoping to “play the field,” find that special woman, and start a loving relationship? Players who try to score are focused on short-term wins. But the loving relationship you want is not a short-term win.       Chasing as many women as possible causes...

    Everyone has “inner parts” that need love and acceptance. But most men don’t know how to handle their emotions when their needs aren’t being met. As a result, these vulnerable “parts” make you feel unlovable.       When men feel unworthy of love, they often...

    Have you ever bombarded a woman with text messages... offered to solve problems “so she will like you”... or found yourself reciting scripted lines to conceal your nervousness?       These behaviors hide your authentic self from the women you want to like...

    Most dating tips from the internet advise you on how to behave, look, or talk with women. But do these tips make you feel fake? You may be missing the largest factor that attracts women to men: Non-Neediness.     Instead of self-confidence, many men have an...

    Do you feel unworthy of love? Do you always try to be your best self? These painful struggles reflect repressed emotions, dulling your appeal to the world.     Many men don’t question these repressed emotions. They use the same coping methods in love that they use...

    Most men haven’t thought about which values lead to a fulfilling life. And it’s hard to know which values are driving you now and which would give you the life you want.       Your values affect your relationships. And values that mask your vulnerabilities will...

    Money, power, women. Popular dating advice tells you to chase these things until you’re happy. And while they make for entertaining YouTube videos, they lead to miserable relationships and crushing insecurities.       True happiness and love don’t come from...

    Imagine you’re at a coffee shop, waiting for your black coffee with extra espresso shot. Across the room you catch an attractive woman glancing your way. How do you respond?     Weirdly enough, this makes many men uncomfortable. They enter “freeze or flight” mode...