3 Key Tips to Make Your First Date Perfect (Part 2 of 3)

August 09, 2013

Dating Tips for Men

It’s National Day in Singapore! I truly appreciate the amazing achievements, culture, and people of my adopted home, and in honour of that, I’m sending you a very special National Day offer: A special $1,000.00 National Day Sale this Sunday, August 11. More on this at the bottom of the email. Now, here’s your second dating tip.

Did you like yesterday’s tip? Here’s another one.

To read Part 1 of this, click here

To read Part 3 of this, click here

Essential TIP #2 for a Perfect First Date: Maximise Conversation

This one is simple but incredibly powerful. If you don’t do it right, you’re guaranteed to have a date that goes nowhere.

A very common date activity is a movie date. But this is a horrible mistake for a first date.

Have you ever been on a date where you and the girl spend time together but not feel any closer to each other? How is it possible that someone could spend two hours with you and still not learn a single interesting thing about you and you not learn anything unique about the other person?

Talking to Women

Easy. This happens when there is no conversation.

Without conversation, it is incredibly difficult for the girl to feel emotionally connected to you. And without that emotional connection, she won’t be able to trust you enough to take things further to the next level.

How to Start a Conversation

So for the first few dates, maximise your conversational opportunities.

Don’t take her to a movie or a concert or a performance where you can’t speak to each other the whole time.

Instead, take her to a place where the background music and noise is quiet enough that you can hear each other easily but loud enough that you can converse without feeling like others are listening. A chill bar or lounge would be great in this regard.

How to Talk to Women

You can also do an activity together that allows conversation. For example, you could play pool, play video games in an arcade, sing together in a private karaoke room, or spend the day at an amusement park riding roller-coasters and munching on street snacks.

How to Hold a Conversation with a Girl

The essential key is to Maximise Conversation. Make sure you have plenty of time to talk and that the environment is conducive to conversation.

That way, you’ll be able to get to know each other much faster, she’ll feel comfortable with you and trust you much faster, and you’ll be able to connect emotionally, all of which will make her more and more attracted to you.

Got it? Tomorrow is the third and last tip. Stay tuned.

Get it done. Get it handled.

Best, David

P.S. I told you this yesterday, but on Sunday, August 11, we’re giving you guys another chance to save $1.000.00 on our top course: the Total Transformation Program. All these tips I’m teaching you this weekend, we get to dive into more deeply and for the rest of the year. You can literally have the perfect date on any given night. Stay tuned for Sunday, August 11.

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