Philosophy’s greatest blindspot is ignorance of the unconscious

"Philosophy’s greatest blindspot is ignorance of the unconscious" “Those who know but do not act simply do not yet know.” — Wang Yangming (1472-1529) For centuries, Western philosophy has perpetuated one of Descartes’ errors: the false presupposition that we are led largely by our conscious reasoning. [...]

By |2019-05-28T12:40:50+08:00January 13th, 2018|Life Decisions|

If you’re waiting until it’s perfect, don’t; good enough is good enough

"If you’re waiting until it’s perfect, don’t; good enough is good enough" Every time I waited until I thought it was perfect — to take action, publish, launch, or ship — it never turned out to be perfect anyway :/ Even worse, I missed valuable opportunities [...]

By |2019-05-28T12:45:46+08:00January 10th, 2018|Life Decisions|

If you always think you’re right, you’ll never learn anything new

"If you always think you’re right, you’ll never learn anything new" Change. That’s a necessary sign of progress, growth, maturity, learning, evolution. This includes changing your mind. It’s astounding how much my views and beliefs about foundational issues — like love, the good, and the meaning [...]

By |2019-05-28T12:47:07+08:00January 9th, 2018|Psychology|

Modern Mating Explained 2: Shame, Narcissism, & Growth for the Nice Guy Fixer

"Modern Mating Explained 2: Shame, Narcissism, & Growth for the Nice Guy Fixer" Keynotes  •   January 8, 2017 "Modern Mating Explained" is a special seminar series that explores the deeper psychological bases for mating in the modern world. For over a decade, David [...]

By |2019-05-28T12:48:12+08:00January 9th, 2018|Dating, The Man Up Show|